By: Ma Ve
THANK YOU! I just came back from a 9 month traveling journey and I figured all this out by this time. Not because I was in paradise. It was more because I finally took time for myself and far away from friends and family who I always ran to when something wasn't working. We make ourselves dependent from so many things especially from the ,,todays society thinking". ,,You have to this, to become that" So many rules, so many stopping signs. We just have to learn to say ,,NO" and create our own mindsets and prove that we can be different and that it is ok to not fit in all the cliches. We only have this one life. And sometimes when I am under pressure I say to myself: ,, I am 26. I have more then 30 years until I am old. What can I do in 30 years? A LOT!" Pressure is a self killer. And it's right... We all have an inner child and adult. The child is the part inside us that feels unsafe, unsure and uncomfortable when our adult doesn't take responsibility for our thoughts coming right from the EGO. We should learn to see the truth behind every bad thought and neutralize it. We have to stop blaming and punishing ourselves and also start to forgive ourselves for all what happened in the past or what can happen in the future. It sounds cheesy but my survival motto is ,,LIVE IN THE PRESENT & LOVE YOURSELF!"
By: Shauna Claire ???
You know what, I really needed to hear these things today! Thank you! I'm really working on how I talk to myself and not limiting myself. Loved the post!
Shauna | http://diariesofadramatic.com
By: Paula @ lifestylegleam.com
In reply to <a href="https://www.thirteenthoughts.com/things-you-have-to-stop-telling-yourself/#comment-62740">Kamilla</a>.
I agree, Kamilla! We all tend to have these thoughts once in a while.
By: Kamilla
I have trouble with the I'm not good, enough whats the point! But we all have our moments, best thing to do is just to think positively and get through with it day by day.
www.artistakay.com
By: Paula @ lifestylegleam.com
In reply to <a href="https://www.thirteenthoughts.com/things-you-have-to-stop-telling-yourself/#comment-62720">Dagmara Klich</a>.
I've struggled with this for the longest time, too. So happy that things have changed for you, Dagmara! Trying new things can feel so liberating and empowering!
